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 While our 10 Day "Classics of Japan" gay journey focuses on the country’s most iconic cities and highlights, this off-the-beaten-path trip is designed to offer something even more authentic and distinctive. It leans further into the Japanese heartland, spending more meaningful time in lesser-known (but remarkable) destinations and creating space to connect with parts of Japan that many travelers never see.
Over 11 days, we travel from Tokyo to Fukuoka at a relaxed, thoughtful pace, with less emphasis on big-city bustle and more focus on rural scenery, mountain towns, hot-spring regions, and truly cultural stays. Instead of checking sights off a list, we prioritize experiences like local food, small-town streets, and traditions that are still part of daily life.
Along the way, we blend guided activities with plenty of free time to explore, slow down, get pleasantly lost, and really take it all in. There’s time for conversation, reflection, and deep bonding with nature. The result is a journey that feels personal and immersive, one that connects us not only to Japan’s history and landscapes, but also to its everyday rhythms, warmth, and quieter corners that linger long after the trip ends.
Please note: this itinerary is intentionally cultural and traditional in focus. Guests looking for a high-energy, nightlife-driven experience or extensive time in major cities may prefer our Classics of Japan 10 Days Gay Tour itinerary.
• All taxes
• Accommodations for your 11-day Japan gay tour experience
• All full breakfasts
• 2 dinners at Ryokan (Japanese lodge) in Takayama
• 1 dinner at Ryokan (Japanese lodge) in Kurokawa Onsen
• All bus and train transfers between itinerary stops
• 24hr subway pass and walking tour of central Tokyo with local guide
• Walking tour with local guide in Kanazawa
• Izakaya welcome dinner in Tokyo
• Knowledgeable and fun gay trip leader
• Meals and drinks outside of those listed above
• Activities outside of the those listed above
• International Airfare
• Arrival/departure airport transfers
• Optional gratuities
Additional spending budget?
our big-ticket items are included through the trip, but you'll want to budget for additional spending such as additional meals, drinks, shopping, activities, etc. These costs can vary dramatically with differing personal habits but we suggest expecting to spend an additional $1000 USD at the lower end for the more budget-conscious and $1400 USD at the higher end for the splurgers. We suggest arriving with some local cash, approximately the equivalent of $300 USD in Japanese Yen.
Days 1, 2, and 3
We begin in Tokyo, a city that seems to hit all the senses at once in the best possible way with neon lights, tiny ramen shops, temples tucked between skyscrapers, and an energy that never really slows down. We gather for our welcome dinner, get to know one another, and then toast the start of the trip with the perfect nightcap in Ni-chome, home to some of the city’s best and most welcoming gay bars.
Our free day here is a chance to shape Tokyo exactly the way we want it. We can wander central neighborhoods and department stores, find calm in the gardens near the Imperial Palace, people-watch in Shibuya, or slip over to Shimokitazawa for a laid-back evening of vintage shops, coffee spots, and local bars.
On Day 3, we trade the skyscrapers for sea breeze as we slip out of the city to Kamakura, a coastal town that packs an incredible amount into a compact area. We’ll visit historic temples and shrines, stand before the iconic Great Buddha, stroll through a tranquil bamboo forest, and enjoy a taste of small-town life before returning to Tokyo in the evening feeling refreshed, grounded, and ready for the days ahead.
Days 4, and 5
We leave the city behind and take the bullet train into the Japanese Alps, watching the scenery shift from suburbs to mountains as we roll into the beautifully preserved town of Takayama. This is where the pace drops down a notch (or three), and the quieter side of Japan really starts to reveal itself.
Quaint streets, wooden merchant houses, and intimate sake breweries set the scene, with a very real sense of everyday local life all around us.
Our home here is a ryokan-style hotel, where tatami floors, slippers, and traditional hospitality create an unmistakably Japanese experience. Dinner is included, and regional dishes become the main event, beautifully presented and deeply rooted in the surrounding countryside.
With free time built in, we can wander the Old Town streets, explore the riverside morning markets, or simply slow down and enjoy the atmosphere. A soak in the onsen offers the perfect way to unwind and settle into the relaxed pace that makes Takayama such a memorable stop on the journey.
Days 6 and 7
From Takayama, we venture further into the countryside to Shirakawa-go, a UNESCO-listed village that feels as if it’s been lifted straight from a postcard. With its steep thatched roofed houses, winding lanes, and dramatic mountain backdrop, it’s the kind of place that invites a slow wander, quiet moments, and more than a few perfect photo stops before we continue on our way.
Next up is Kanazawa, a city largely spared during World War II, which is why its historic districts, wooden teahouses, and exquisite gardens remain so beautifully intact today. We have a full day here to do as much (or as little!) as we like. Explore Kanazawa Castle and the stunning Kenrokuen Garden, often considered one of the most beautiful in Japan, sample ultra-fresh sushi at the famous fish market near our hotel, or stroll the atmospheric streets of the Higashi Chaya District. You can also dive into local crafts like gold leaf or simply relax in cafés and people-watch. Kanazawa is a city that doesn’t rush you, and it’s best enjoyed exactly that way.
Day 8
A quick flight south brings us to Fukuoka, a lively coastal city with an easygoing vibe and a well-earned reputation for incredible food. It’s the cultural gateway to Kyushu, and right away the atmosphere feels warmer, more relaxed, and just a little bit slower than Tokyo.
After settling into our hotel, the evening is ours to enjoy at our own pace. We might track down a steaming bowl of the city’s famous Hakata ramen, served at tiny counters and open-air food stalls, or wander along the waterfront promenades as the city lights reflect off the bay. Street markets, cozy bars, and riverside neighborhoods offer plenty of options if we feel like easing into the relaxed rhythm of life on the subtropical island of Kyushu.
Days 9, and 10
From Fukuoka, we leave the city behind and wind our way into the mountains of central Kyushu, where rural landscapes and quiet river valleys replace busy streets. Our first stop is the charming town of Hita, often nicknamed “Little Kyoto” for its well-preserved merchant streets, traditional townhouses, and relaxed pace of life. After some time to explore, we continue deeper into the countryside toward Kurokawa Onsen.
Tucked into a forested valley, Kurokawa Onsen is a small hot spring village designed around simplicity and serenity. The nature surrounding Kurokawa is stunning: much lusher and denser than you would find around Tokyo or Kyoto. Our ryokan stay includes access to traditional indoor and outdoor onsens, as well as a multi-course dinner featuring seasonal, locally sourced ingredients. The village itself is compact and easy to explore on foot, with a handful of shops, cafés, and baths clustered along quiet streets.
The next day, we explore Mount Aso, offering a very different take, but an equally incredible view of Japan’s volcanic beauty. You’ll take in sweeping views across the caldera, get a closer look at an active volcanic crater, and visit a historic Shinto shrine, before heading back to Fukuoka where we enjoy our final evening together.
Please note that guests with tattoos may need to cover them before entering a public bath, or request a private bathing experience, subject to availability.
Day 11
With free time to enjoy our final moments in Japan, there’s still room for one last wander, a quiet temple visit, or a stop for those final souvenirs. It’s also the perfect chance to enjoy one more memorable meal... ramen at a favorite counter, fresh sushi, or a simple bento in the park.
As the journey winds down, we can reflect on how much we’ve seen and how different Japan feels compared to when we first arrived. The fast trains and big cities are only part of the story; the country’s real character appears in small details like polite greetings, mountain air, steaming baths, and the care behind even the simplest meal.
As our trip comes to a close, we carry more than photos. We leave with a deeper connection to a place that rewards curiosity and reveals itself most fully when we slow down and let each moment sink in.
We don't like staying in smelly shacks on our vacations and we're pretty sure you don't either! You work hard to go on vacation and we believe you deserve an enjoyable, comfortable place to wind down at the end of each day. We put a LOT of time into finding the perfect accommodation for your trip. After rigorous Wi-fi signal testing, fluffing pillows, and taking a shower or two, we've narrowed down our favorite properties. Check out our approved accommodation to see where we've stayed in the past and where we'll likely be staying on your trip.
Tokyo, Japan
Groove Shinjuku Hotel
In the heart of Tokyo's trendy Shinjuku neighborhood, among the bright lights of one of the largest cities in the world, this hotel is perfectly situated to explore the city during the day and night. The hotel is modern and comfortable and many rooms have views over the city below. Rooms feature air-conditioning, private bathrooms with walk-in showers, city views, and modern amenities such as refrigerators and free toiletries. The on-site restaurant serves up a great breakfast each morning too!
Takayama, Japan
Takayama Green Hotel
 A relaxing resort-style stay in central Takayama, Takayama Green Hotel blends traditional Japanese hospitality with modern comfort. Spacious rooms, soothing onsen hot spring baths, and dining featuring regional Hida specialties make it easy to unwind. Within walking distance of Old Town and morning markets, it’s an ideal base for exploring and relaxing in equal measure. The Japanese garden provides a touch of zen. Hot-spring baths on offer include open-air and indoor baths.
Kanazawa, Japan
Nikko Kanazawa Hotel
 A contemporary upscale hotel in the heart of Kanazawa, Hotel Nikko Kanazawa offers refined comfort with sweeping city views. Elegant rooms, attentive service, and multiple dining options create an easy, relaxed stay. Close to the shopping arcades at Kanazawa Station, Kenrokuen Garden, and historic districts. A Japanese/Western buffet breakfast is available. La Plage offers 30th-floor views and French cuisine, while Benkei serves sushi beside a Japanese garden. A Chinese restaurant and a bar are also available.
Fukuoka, Japan
Nikko Fukuoka Hotel
 A centrally located hotel, it offers contemporary comfort with warm Japanese hospitality. Stylish rooms, indoor pool, fitness facilities, and multiple restaurants, including excellent local cuisine, create a relaxing base in the city. Steps from Hakata Station Mall and it’s ideal for exploring Fukuoka while unwinding in calm, upscale surroundings. Kohro Restaurant offers a Chinese menu, while Serena serves Western dishes. Sushi and other Japanese delicacies are also available. The hotel also has a bar and a tea lounge.
Kurokawa Onsen, Japan
Sanga Ryokan
 An atmospheric traditional inn tucked into the peaceful countryside, Sanga Ryokan offers an immersive Japanese experience. Tatami rooms, kaiseki dining, and serene open-air onsen baths surrounded by nature create true escape. With warm, attentive hospitality and forested walking paths nearby, it’s an ideal place to slow down, unwind, and enjoy authentic ryokan comfort.
*Please note that due to availability, these exact hotels may not all be available during all our trips. However, we will always replace these with similar hotels.
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The Climate
October and November are among the most pleasant times of year to experience Japan. Daytime temperatures are generally mild and comfortable, with Tokyo, Takayama, and Kanazawa averaging around 55–70°F (13–21°C), while evenings can be cooler, especially in the mountains. In Kyushu, including Fukuoka and the Kurokawa Onsen area, temperatures tend to be slightly warmer, typically 60–75°F (16–24°C) during the day. Humidity is much lower than in summer, rainfall is moderate, and skies are often clear. This period also coincides with the start of autumn foliage in some regions, making it an ideal season for walking, cultural sightseeing, and outdoor onsen. Think "sweater weather" kind of a vibe.
Based on this, your bag should be packed with warm outfits for some periods of cool weather, as well as some short-sleeved shirts for some warmer days. It's a good idea to bring some just-in-case rain gear too.
The People & LGBTQ+ Friendliness
Japan is widely regarded as a safe and welcoming destination for LGBTQ+ travelers, though social attitudes can be more reserved than in North America or Western Europe. Public displays of affection of any kind (straight or gay) are considered gauche in Japan, and concepts like “coming out” are often shaped by strong family and societal expectations.
While legal recognition for same-sex couples remains limited, visitors generally do not encounter hostility, discrimination, or safety concerns. Travelers can expect to be treated with politeness and respect throughout the country.
Tokyo does have a vibrant unique gay nightlife scene, and there are a few small gay bars in Fukuoka. However, in the smaller towns and rural areas we visit on this itinerary, LGBTQ-specific nightlife is limited or nonexistent.
The Cuisine
Japanese cuisine is renowned for its delicate flavors, meticulous preparation, and aesthetic presentation. With a focus on fresh, seasonal ingredients, traditional Japanese dishes like sushi, sashimi, tempura, and ramen have gained global popularity. Food is a central part of this journey, with two standout regional specialties along the way. In Kanazawa, located between the Sea of Japan and the Japanese Alps, we’ll enjoy some of the country’s freshest and most refined seafood, including amaebi (sweet shrimp) and kani (crab). Further south in Fukuoka, the culinary focus shifts to one of Japan’s most beloved comfort foods: Hakata-style tonkotsu ramen, known for its rich pork-bone broth.
The cuisine is unique for many visitors but, don't worry, if you don't want to eat Japanese food eleven days in a row, there will be plentiful international options available in Tokyo, Kanazawa, and Fukuoka. The Japanese are masters of imitation; some of the most renowned French and Italian restaurants in the world are actually in Japan.
What to bring?
Our advice is simple. Pack your bag, then take half of those things out and leave them back home. It’s common to hear people wishing they’d packed less stuff, but we’ve never heard anyone complain that they didn’t bring enough. Even if you realize you forget to pack some crucial item you can always pick up a replacement once you arrive in Tokyo. Just make sure to review the climate section above and remember that our trips are run in a casual style so you can leave your tuxedos at home. We'll include some trip-specific packing advice based on expected weather as part of our update email to you, sent 10 days prior to your trip.
Money
Most major credit cards are accepted for purchases in larger stores and restaurants. However, be aware that shrines and other locations in rural areas might only take cash. It can sometimes be challenging to use large-denomination bills at shops and restaurants, so we encourage you to request small denomination bills when getting cash prior to your trip.
If possible, it's always a good idea to travel internationally with a credit card that doesn't charge foreign transaction fees. The savings will add up over the course of your trip and may end up being worth the work of getting a new card prior to your trip. Once you're overseas, if presented with the option to pay in the local currency or your home currency, we suggest always choosing the local currency to further avoid fees.
Tipping
Contrary to many other places in the world, those who work in the service industry in Japan do not rely on tips for their livelihood and tipping is not expected or common in most circumstances, including restaurants. The service culture in Japan is such that they always have high expectations of service and are not incentivized by the expectation of tips. While still not expected, an exception to this can be with local guides if you feel they are exceptional. If you choose to reward good service with a tip in Japan, it's customary to place the tip in an envelope or a folded piece of paper. You would present this with both hands to the recipient and say: otsukaresama-desu, meaning "thanks for your hard work."
Accommodation
We have pretty high standards when it comes to choosing our accommodations, and trust us, we’ve done plenty of room-sniffing, pillow-patting, and bathroom inspections to make sure we stay at quality spots. We won't be staying in 5-star Ritz-Carltons but we also won't subject you to anything we wouldn't want to stay in ourselves. Around 4-ish star quality is what we stick to. Clean, comfortable, well-located spots that'll put a smile on your face, you can count on that!
On this partiuclar trip, we'll be staying in ryokan-style accommodations in Takayama and Kurokawa Onsen. At ryokans, guest typically change into cotton robes called yukata and bathe before and after dinner. These rooms may have futons placed directly on a tatami mat for a traditional experience. It's a little bit different from a traditional western bed, but they are thoughtfully prepared each evening and are generally very comfortable, offering an authentic and memorable sleeping experience.
Trip Leaders
Our trips are led by one of our own gay trip leaders. They're there with you every day and their job is to help ensure that this is your trip of a lifetime by taking the hassle out of your trip and enabling you to experience everything you came to Japan for. Consider them like a friendly concierge that's traveling along with you. All of our trip leaders are gay and all are well-traveled and experienced in the destination they're leading in, so they'll be a great part of your experience! In addition to your trip leader, you'll also be joined by local guides along the way - including a Japanese speaker who may join us for overnight portions of the journey - who will be there to give you an even more in-depth understanding of the place you're visiting.
Your Group
Our groups are run with a maximum of 16 travelers.Ages of group members vary but around 80% of our travelers are in their 40's and 50's. Whatever the age of the guys on our trips everyone's already got something in common, an exciting new experience in a new country! Each group is led by a Detours trip leader who is there to ensure everything goes off without a hitch, allowing you to focus on having the time of your life!
Staying Connected
To ensure you don't lose connection along the way, your cell phone provider likely has several roaming options available. We suggest reaching out to them prior to the trip to find out which package is right for you as it will depend on how much you intend to use your phone while traveling. Keep in mind that all accommodation and most restaurants have free WiFi available as well.
Solo Travelers
No problem! Don’t worry, around 60% of our travelers come solo and our trip will provide plenty of chances to meet great people both inside and outside of our group, including other solos. As far as your accommodations go, you’ve got two choices. We can either pair you up with another solo group member in a two-bed room for no extra charge, or you can have your own room for a reasonable surcharge.
Electrical Outlets
Japan uses a "type A" and "type B" plug, the same as North America and several other places in the world. The voltage is 100V with 60 Hz frequency. These days, the majority of items that are plugged into an outlet are built to handle varying voltage and frequency levels, but just to be sure, we suggest checking your item for its accetable range.
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